Girls can say many things which will cause guys to try to decipher them. There’s a question I’ve been getting lately: What does it mean when a girl says “It’s up to you?” And I wanted to discuss what it means in this exact article. Let’s start.
What Does This Mean?
When a girl says “It’s up to you” it mainly means that she wants you to take the lead. Women are natural followers, and you are supposed to be the leader as a man.
So, the next time you are, for example, choosing a restaurant to go to with her, don’t say “I don’t know, where do you want to go?” and something along those lines. It will turn a woman off. She wants you to lead and be a good decision-maker.
Always have a plan! If she asks where are we going, have something planned in your head before. That way, you’ll appear as a man who knows what he wants and makes quick decisions, and she’ll see you as more attractive.
It’s also quite possible that she is just indecisive or unsure what she really wants at that particular moment, and wants you to make a decision.
Other Possibilities
It could also mean that she wants you to make a decision because she doesn’t want any conflicts or pressure. For example, if any decision she makes could lead to disagreement, she might prefer to ultimately leave it in your hands.
Finally, she could just say this out of politeness to not offend you or pressure you into taking a particular stance. By saying this, it’s another way of saying “I am fine with whatever you choose.”
Conclusion
The ultimate meaning of “It’s up to you” is that a girl wants YOU to decide and take the lead. You’re the man, and naturally, you should take the lead, and a woman should be your follower.
Now, of course, if you guys agree, it’s okay to sometimes do something or go somewhere she wants, but you should be okay with it too.
If she always tries to take control of the situation, meaning that she wants you to go or do something that you don’t want ALL THE TIME; it’s not good. She’ll try to manipulate you by doing that more and more in the future, and you’ll basically be beneath her. She’ll see you as a low-value man, and eventually leave you.
This is why it’s important for both of you to agree on something, but you as a man should never be indecisive. Women like confident and determined men who know what they want.
Good luck!